by Sandy Shores | Feb 14, 2021 | Uncategorized
Try this checklist? ___Do you look forward to a treat at the end of the day? ___Do you have a couple of drinks or smoke some marijuana before you go out? ___Have you used drugs when no one was around? These are just a couple of red flags, however, on page 55...
by admin | Feb 6, 2021 | Uncategorized
by admin | Feb 6, 2021 | Uncategorized
A random place to share: If you are dealing with a situation and would like my opinion, write to me here. I may post it on this site; No names nor email info will be disclosed.
by admin | Feb 6, 2021 | Uncategorized
I recently read about a person who has difficulty breathy 24/7 due to anxiety. My response was: Do you have asthma or a medical condition?If not, it looks like you’re sabotaging yourself. Are you creating difficulties in order to stop yourself before you start?...
by admin | Feb 3, 2021 | Uncategorized
Manipulating is when someone distorts the truth to get his or her way. Have you ever participated in the following? I gave you the silent treatment.I overreacted so you would back down.I will embarrass you to get my way.I will tell you lies to confuse you. Try not to...
by admin | Feb 2, 2021 | Uncategorized
LOVE boils down to a NEED. If you are referring to a significant other, LOVE is a NEED + a physical attraction. If you are referring to a family member or friend, it’s simply a NEED. I will explain… You have two aunts that you are equally fond of. One aunt...
by Sandy Shores | Sep 20, 2023 | Uncategorized
As I mentioned before, you can be your child’s best friend but I disagree that they can be yours. Hence, you shouldn’t be sharing details of your marriage or grown-up problems with a child. Children don’t have the ability to process adult situations....
by Sandy Shores | Sep 19, 2023 | Uncategorized
This author believes, YES, this can happen. If both individuals fulfill a NEED for you then you could find yourself in a predicament. My advice to you would be to seek counseling to sort things...
by Sandy Shores | Sep 19, 2023 | Uncategorized
You might think that “they” are wrong, crazy, and psychotic and you have done nothing wrong to warrant such ridiculous behavior. Well, I challenge you to look at your own behavior, Ask yourself, did you poke the bear? Did you bring up something at an...
by admin | Feb 25, 2021 | Uncategorized
REFLECT on the good times. DON’T waste your time, possibly your last minutes on earth, thinking about what you are loosing. Here’s a joke to lighten your mood: My Dad and I were in Disney World, Florida, USA and we were taking the shuttle bus through the...
by Sandy Shores | Feb 21, 2021 | Uncategorized
Don’t you hate it when people ask you if you are depressed when you’re not? And then you think to yourself, Am I supposed to be, since you just put the idea in my head? Explain to others that it’s helpful for them to ask, How are you feeling?...
by Sandy Shores | Feb 14, 2021 | Uncategorized
Money is a big source of arguments. It took my husband and me a while to get on the same page. What worked for us was a chart on paper. On the left side of the paper, I put all of the companies I had to pay for and due dates (ex. 11th). Next, I made 12 boxes...
by Sandy Shores | Feb 14, 2021 | Uncategorized
When you get angry do you: punch a wall? throw things? hurt yourself? have bad thoughts? think of revenge? clean something? act recklessly? yell? give yourself a headache? cry? give others the silent treatment? spend money? overeat? You’re hurting...
