Complaints

Complaints

Most people don’t like to hear complaints so how can you solve your problem without being annoying? My answer: Followup your complaint with a possible solution. If you can’t think of one, ask to brainstorm solutions together.

Anxiety Exploration

I recently read about a person who has difficulty breathy 24/7 due to anxiety. My response was: Do you have asthma or a medical condition?If not, it looks like you’re sabotaging yourself. Are you creating difficulties in order to stop yourself before you start?...
Manipulating

Manipulating

Manipulating is when someone distorts the truth to get his or her way. Have you ever participated in the following? I gave you the silent treatment.I overreacted so you would back down.I will embarrass you to get my way.I will tell you lies to confuse you. Try not to...
Fair Fighting Rules

Fair Fighting Rules

Rule #4: Listen with an open mind. a. Try not to predict what the other person will say. b. If you find yourself interrupting, write down a keyword or phrase for later. (if possible) c. Make sure you use clarifying statements. “So what I hear you saying...
The definition of FRIENDSHIP

The definition of FRIENDSHIP

My oldest daughter didn’t find her best friend until her first year of High School. If you haven’t found that special friend yet, be patient and keep your eyes open.
Love. Is it real?❤

Love. Is it real?❤

LOVE boils down to a NEED. If you are referring to a significant other, LOVE is a NEED + a physical attraction. If you are referring to a family member or friend, it’s simply a NEED. I will explain… You have two aunts that you are equally fond of. One aunt...
Jealousy- The recipeint

Jealousy- The recipeint

I’ve been thinking about the person who bears the brunt from the one who is jealous. This person needs help too. If it were me, I would confront the jealous person in a gentle manner. I might say, “Are you angry at me? Did I do something to offend you? I...
Personality Disorders

Personality Disorders

My opinion on personality disorders: How do you get along with someone with an Personality Disorder?  These people can go to work, have families. These People often appear emotional, erratic, and dramatic affecting all areas of your personal, home, and sexual life. ...